She might be right. But then
again, she might not be. Definitive proof is lacking either way. But for the
sake of discussion, let’s say she’s right, and we can’t control the world by
thinking good thoughts. Is this reason enough to be pessimistic?
All agree that viewing things
realistically is important, but let’s not confuse “realistic” with “pessimistic”.
Most of the time, we do not have all the information necessary to definitively
decide what’s realistic and what isn’t.
That’s where Skepticism comes
in. A skeptical, challenges ideas and tests
points of view. But too often, it’s easy to slip into Cynicism. I
differentiate between the two as follows:
Skepticism means we have
doubts, questions, concerns, but the door is open to information that will help
me make up my mind.
Cynicism means our door is closed, locked and nailed shut.
We are not questioning, we are not looking for information, we are not open to new ideas.
Cynicism is a block to
improvement and progress. Cynics are the skunks at the picnic, the ones who can
tell you why every idea is a bad one, every change will be disastrous and every
point of view (other than theirs) is delusional and unrealistic.
The original Cynics were
Greeks who believed that virtue was the greatest good, and they hung around in
the streets like a pack of dogs (“Cynic” comes from the Greek word for dog), watch the passing crowd, and ridicule
anyone who seemed pompous, pretentious, materialistic or downright wicked. The
most famous of the ancient Cynics was Diogenes, who reportedly took up
residence in a tub to demonstrate his freedom from material wants.
Today’s cynics are found in
meetings, taking potshots at the ideas of others, firm in the belief that only
they have the straight scoop on what’s what.
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